Wednesday, December 31, 2014

2015 Resolutions

So in review, my 2014 resolutions were a complete flop. The only one I truly achieved was to write to Chris every week... and that's because writing to my favorite person is the easiest thing ever. Oh and reading a bunch of books, because that's just what I do.
So let's try again, shall we? 2015 here I come!

Resolutions:

  1. Read 30 more books, with at least 2 "Classics" and one LDS.
  2. Buy a house
  3. Catalog and organize my entire library
  4. Be a better homemaker, cook, wife, daughter, sister, student, person
  5. Write to Elder Zuniga every week & send care packages every month
  6. Grad school. Just do it. 
  7. Make a "big deal" craft every month
  8. Be constant with my scripture study journal
  9. Take the stairs instead of the elevator
  10. Pay off credit cards & keep them that way
  11. Collect memories, not things [declutter rooms & donate unecessaries often]
  12. Challenge myself to do or complete things I never thought I could do

2014 Year In Review


January
  • Watched The Hobbit; The Desolation of Smaug 
  • Philip returned from SA... made decision to live in CC
  • Besties annual gift exchange (a little late, but still fun)
  • Philip began first "new job" of the year
  • Chris went through the temple
  • Chris' going-away party, tons of crying, and also my birthday.
  • Drove Christ to the airport. Cried the rest of the day. 
  • Got philip and mom a new phone
  • Moved out of our first apartment, Kingston Port
February
  • Watched Lone Survivor
  • San Antonio Valentine's Weekend
  • Lizzies Birthday
  • Took Venom to the beach for the first time
  • BYU vs UTSA baseball game
March 
  • Paid off 3 credit cards!
  • phone call from Chris at the airport!
  • moved into our new apartment, Walnut Ridge
  • visited my parents and went to Ruth's wedding
  • Got addicted to 2048 game (thanks a lot, Taber)
  • Watched Pompeii 
April
  • registered for summer and fall classes at TAMUCC
  • last session of General Conference at Alexanders'
  • watched Captain America: The Winter Soldier 
  • first bonfire of the year with YSA
  • celebrated Easter with San Antonio Wyeths (I love my niece!)
  • Mini Golf with The Burkes (Rob & Makenna)
  • made Kit Kats Cake for Phil's birthday
May
  • Star Wars Day
  • Watched Spider Man 2
  • learned how to make pot stickers with Lan
  • went kayaking at the Alexander's
  • Philip got a great job! (Turner)
  • I got an extra job (Schlitterbahn)
  • Watched X Men: Days of Future Past
  • Hooks Game with The Kings (Chris and Heather)
June 
  • started school again 
  • watched The Fault In Our Stars
  • watched 22 Jump Street 
  • lots of dentist things 
  • Schlitterbahn Opened! #bahnlove 
  • Venom's 1st birthday

July
  • Our 1st Anniversary! <3
  • tried scuba diving and almost drowned 
  • went to Schlitterbahn at SPI
  • went to Megan's quincenera
  • found a legit taco stand in Corpus!
  • Elder Zuniga is 6 months on a mission! 
  • promoted to supervisor at Schlitterbahn 
  • Philip -> new job -> Dynamic -> offshore!!
August
  • Philip went to work offshore
  • temple trip and apartment searching with Tabby 
  • out to lunch with Grandma Wyeth
  • Philip went to work in Newark, NJ
  • started Fall semester at TAMUCC
  • finally bought a Macbook Pro
September
  • Elder Zuniga's birthday
  • Angry Birds Live!
  • Weekend @ home with mom & dad
  • P came home after 6 weeks away!
  • Watched Let's Be Cops
  • New-er laptop! (turns out Macs aren't my thing)
  • Paid off 3 (other) debts!
  • General Women's Meeting
October
  • P came home for a week!
  • Kaleb came home from his mission
  • went to visit San Antonio Wyeths
  • Natural Bridge Wildlife Ranch
  • Watched Fury
  • Walking Dead Season 5!
  • watched Maze Runner
  • dance lessons started
  • midterms >:(
  • dressed up as a bunny
November 
  • Mom and Dad showed up for a random Saturday visit
  • P came home for a week!
  • disgusting cold front
  • crashed a lot of YSA events out of boredom
  • released as 1st Counselor in YW's
  • Loni came to visit! 
  • Philip officially back from New Jersey
  • Watched Mockingjay
  • Thanksgiving weekend at Zuniga household 
  • Tania's 25th birthday party
December
  • Upgraded to iPhone 6
  • Purchased a Dyson vacuum and became obsessed with it
  • Philip left for Houma, LA
  • Insane 2 weeks of final exams
  • Road trip to Fredricksburg with Loni and Mark
  • Philip officially home (working locally)
  • got adopted by Alfredo the Cat
  • Dinner party @ Nicole's
  • Watched The Hobbit; Battle of the Five Armies
  • Elder Zuniga Skyped home!!!! 
  • bestie gift exchange
  • got sick -.-'

Friday, December 12, 2014

Now That I Broke Up With College, I Can Date My Coupons Again

MY GREATEST ADDICTION IS BACK!
I just spent an hour planning for next week's shopping trip, it's going to be epic! 
Man, if I had put as much work into my studies as I do to this... nah, I would have had the same grades. I actually tried hard this semester. 


Heeeeyyyy Macarena!

Technology is acting up in the office today, and I was too busy facebooking to notice until I heard the following from Dale:
"I can't get into Quickbooks, Johnette can't get into Quickbooks, my computer is frozen... there's only one thing to do! Dance the Macarena!....... And then I need to go to the bank." 
And he pulls up and plays the Macarena song right on cue! Hahaha it was one of those "had to be there" moments.

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Cleaning: Not Just My Coping Mechanism

P left for Houma, LA early this morning and we have no idea how long that job will last. He might be home for Christmas, or he might not... who knows? Although I am mentally prepared for the bitterness of having him gone most of December, I also need a way to cope.
The year I lived with Loni she quickly figured out that I often cleaned when I was upset, and she would kindly ask me if there was anything she could do. It was not until then that I realized cleaning was my coping mechanism.
Naturally, 20 minutes after the rumbling of P's truck had dissipated, my entire apartment was vacuumed.
 [Actually, let me make a tangent to exclaim just how AMAZING my new Dyson vacuum is. I ordered the cheapest one Best Buy had and I couldn't be any happier. It's a tiny, battery powered, lightweight thing with the craziest suction power. Upon using it for the first time, I was both appalled and astounded at how much dog hair was sticking to 10 square feet of carpet. I had to stop there because 1) it was already full of too much dog hair and 2) P was watching TV and refused to be interrupted to jump up and down with excitement about a vacuum. Dyson DC44 Rating: Awesome]

So back to my point, I super-vacuumed everything as soon as P drove off. And then proceeded to clean the kitchen, fold laundry, wipe down surfaces, put P's leftover tools away, and find other reasons to use my Dyson, such as sucking dust out of the AC vents. Worked like a charm.

My second coping mechanism: blogging. Here are my reasons as to why keeping a clean house makes me feel better about everything.

  1. It is pleasing to sit in a clean, orderly room. 
  2. Cleanliness attracts cleanliness and vice versa. If the place is a mess... I'll make more mess. If it's clean, then I'll want to keep it clean. 
  3. Things don't get lost. I have a big rule about having a "home" for everything in the house, plus having one junk drawer per room. It totally works. 
  4. Blank slates spawn creativity. For example, when all the dishes are clean and put away, and the fridge is nice and organized I feel like cooking. When my desk is clear of clutter I feel like writing or doing homework. When my clothes are all washed and put away I feel like trying harder than a "jeans and a t-shirt" look. 
  5. It reduces my stress level. I've noticed that when I tidy up one room then I want to spend more time in that room and avoid the messy places of the house. That's because I feel more relaxed when I am in a clean environment. 
Alright, so there. With P gone my apartment is so clean and quiet that even Venom is lounging about instead of hyperactively chewing on toys. Now that this blog post is done and there is nothing else for me to clean, I must finally get to working on my awfully long take-home final exams. Ugh. 



Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Tide Pods: Return of the Coupons

After my 5-month coupon hiatus, I have returned with a vengeance. Well... not really, it's not that extreme, but I did get a crazy good deal on Tide Pods this past week. Oh, and I snagged up some Listerine mouthwash for good measure... they were free with ExtraBucks. So here's last week's deal at my beloved CVS:

Day One, Store 1: [I went to 2 stores so I wouldn't clear shelves]

  • 2 Listerine Mouthwash
    • $4.99 sale price
    • Used $5 off $10 Mouthwash CVS coupon
    •  CVS promo: Spend $10, get $5 ExtraBucks
  • 4 Tide Pods, 14ct
    • $3.94 sale price
    • used 4 $2/1 Tide Pods MC from 11/16 newspapers
    • used CVS email coupon "$5 off $15 in-store purchase" 
  • Total OOP for Day 1 was $8
    • And gained $5 in ExtraBucks
Day 2, Store 2:
  • 4 [more] Tide Pods, 14ct
    • $3.94 sale price
    • used another 4 $2/1 MC from 11/16 newspaper
  • Total OOP for Day 2 was $8.00
    • And gained a $10 CVS gift card: Spend $30 get $10 GC on select PG products
SavingStar: 
  • SavingStar is an awesome website for couponers! There is currently a Spend $30, get $10 refund on select PG products.
    • Make sure you connect your CVS account first! 
  • Received $10 Payout from SavingStar
In Review:
  • Spent $16 OOP
  • Received $5 ExtraBucks for Mouthwash
  • Received $10 CVS Gift Card for spending $30 on Tide Pods
  • Received $10 SavingStar Refund for spending $30 on PG products
  • TOTAL: $9.00 MONEY MAKER! 

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Note to Self: You're Adultier Than You Know



Right at this instant I am having a ridiculous realization: I'm officially a grown up. You know how I figured it out? I was sitting at my desk visiting random websites out of boredom and I happened upon Best Buy's 47-page Black Friday Ad.
I clicked through the first 40 pages with a disgusted, kind of bitchy voice in my head going "why do people waste money on all this crap?" and "think of all the useful things you can do with $999 instead of getting a TV" and "I wouldn't want that in my house even if it was free!" and "People give up their Thanksgiving dinner to fight each other in the store for thiiis??" 

I was completely and utterly unimpressed and unexcited until I reached page 41. And then my mind went "Oh my gosh, appliances! $1,700 is such a good price for that fridge!" [Of course, there's no way I'm getting a fridge; I live in a tiny apartment and would have a nearly-impossible time getting something that big through my front door, let alone store it somewhere.]
And then, I clicked to page 45 and did a happy dance because "Oh my gosh, vacuums! I've been looking for a good deal on vacuums for so long!!" 
[Seriously y'all, any (and I mean ANY) Dyson under $300 is a steal.]

And so then I took a step outside my body and looked at myself for a second. What I saw was this: I have totally moved past the "I need expensive consumer electronics to feel good about myself" stage and am now living the "I must make my nest clean and beautiful because I'm a grown-up and a plastic tote is NOT a laundry hamper" stage. So yeah, go Me!


Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Phil VS Sleep

Since P has been out in NJ for the past few months, the chances I get to hear him talking in his sleep have diminished to almost nothing. However, I recently saw something funny happen. On his first night back home, he had not slept in about a day and a half, but we had so much to talk about that he insisted on staying up so we could finish our conversation. Here's how that went:

(after closing a conversational subject)
Me: (sitting by him on the bed) Ok, you should go to sleep now.
P: (laying in bed) But I'm not tired anymore, I'm going to watch TV in the living room.
Me: Just go to sleep, I want to read a book in the living room.
P: But I'm not tired.
Me: Stay still for 5 minutes and I promise you'll fall asleep.
P: I'm not sleepy. 

I decided I was too sleepy for book reading, so I got off his side of the bed, walked to my side, took my glasses off, and laid down.
Time elapsed: 10 seconds.

By the time I fluffed my pillows and turned off the light, I looked over and P was 110% asleep. Mr-I'm-Not-Tired took all of 10 seconds to slip into a coma. He asked me the next morning how long I had been out reading in the living room because he hadn't felt me "come back to bed".

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Above The Water

These days I'm really struggling to keep my head above the water. Or maybe my nose, because my neck is at times very much submerged.

I was raised by parents who placed a big importance on education. They were not the "tiger parents" who constantly pushed for better than my absolute best, but they did keep a close watch every report card and questioned me for anything lower than a 90. When High School came along, they melted into the background and pretty much let me handle my school work because I expected a lot better from myself than they did.
In HS, every point made a difference. All that mattered to me was how high my GPA could get, because graduating in the top 5% of my class was the driving force and ultimate motivation.
[There are unresolved psychological issues at play here, all I cared about was "walking the line" first during graduation and avoiding the alphabetical order issue which had plagued me my entire life because my last name started with the letter Z. Anyway, it did the trick. I was #16 in a class of 500.]

So I just wanted to mention and let it be clear that I am of slightly above-average intelligence, and that the "ok" grades have and always will be A's.
Given this information, please digest the following:
At this point in my educational career, I would be happy with C's. 
Learning is pretty tough at the moment. I am struggling to keep my head above the water. I have a persistent, internal, disapproving frown directed at myself because I can't seem to do better, and combined with other "life" factors [aka P being gone all the time] I have caught myself thinking pretty depressive thoughts.
One random day not very long ago, during one of my "sad because life+school=sucks" moments, I received a phone call from my dad.
[Priesthood power and revelation is a seriously wonderful thing]
We talked for a maximum of 3 minutes, but he sure knew what to say. He doesn't know that I am having my "moments", all I said was "school? well... school is a lot harder than I thought it would be". His response? "Keep your spirits up. Not anyone achieves this."  (Animo hija, esto no cualquiera lo logra)

Thanks, dad. I have been repeating those words on a daily basis, and they truly are helping.
I am nowhere near close to a Master's degree yet... but I know that day will come with enough persistence and determination. And it's true, not everyone achieves it.

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

The First Night Of The Rest Of My Life

Once upon a time there was a girl who was in love with romance. She read book after book by Nicolas Sparks, daydreamed about finding Prince Charming, planned intricate details of her wedding, made lists of must-have qualities of the perfect guy, and always cried during the movie Pearl Harbor. Never having been truly "in love", her biggest fear was that life would pass by too quickly and not give her the opportunity to meet The One, and that one day she would look back, lonely and wishful, and wonder what had happened.

That girl... Was me. I am literally rolling my eyes at past-tense me. What was I thinking? And how on earth did I come to own eighteen books by Sparks? Did I realize they're all kind of the same story, in the same state, with a slight character modification here and there? And also, what exactly made Edward Cullen so desirable? And how could I so happily hear the words "As you wish" out of Wesley's mouth and not cringe at the sappiness? 

You want to know what caused the 180? It was the night of October 23, 2011.
My friend T and I decided to randomly throw a get-together for no good reason but to celebrate the serendipitous fact that we both ended up living in the same apartment complex and had no idea we would meet each other 2 months prior.We spent ridiculous amounts of money on all flavors of junk food and then invited basically all the church friends we knew, and most of them showed up.
After some grilled burgers we all settled down to watch a movie and had a pretty good time just hanging out. One by one, guests trickled slowly out the door until only 2 remained. These guys:
One of them (far right) lived over an hour away and decided he didn't feel like driving. He wandered into my bedroom and quietly fell asleep without alerting anyone. 

The other took ownership of my couch and no matter how much I asked, prodded, whined, and shoved, refused to move. At the time I didn't really know much about him, so I didn't know he worked oil field and was probably too tired to get up and to lazy to care that this was a girls apartment and he needed to get out of here soon. 

He didn't get out. All I succeeded in doing was pushing him off the couch and somehow toppling over onto him in the process. And there we stayed, laying side by side, and spent the entire night talking. Just talking. Sometime around 4AM, G wandered out of my bedroom dazed and confused, took one look at us laying on the floor, and went back to bed. 
They both left next morning and I groggily took back my bed and drifted off to sleep. 

Somehow, for some inexpiable reason, that was the night that brought us together 3 years ago, and together we have been ever since. 
You know the quote by Winnie the Poo that says "Ever since I met you, I knew and adventure was going to happen." ? That could not be closer to the truth. 
The time that I really, truly met Philip Wyeth, I had no idea that I'd just spent the night talking with the most important person of my life. I just knew that he was one of the most cunning, daring, frustrating, devious person I'd met, and that we needed to spend some more time together. I felt suspicious, curious, hesitant, and a little unsure of where I wanted this to go, but I was too intrigued to just ignore him. 

And so there went the romantic side of me. I spent the next few days subconsciously organizing my mind so that there would be room for him along with the million other things I was responsible for, like not forgetting to buy bathroom tissue and drinking 64 ounces of water a day. I stopped wanting romance because I had more. I had this strange relationship with this guy who drove me crazy with ever other sentence, and who somehow made me believe it was a great idea to dye our hair blue (and we did... before we knew each other's names). Looking back on it I really wish I had recorded every detail of our beginnings, How I Met Your Mother style, so that I could have enough of a story to put into a book of some kind. Unfortunately, these blog posts will have to do. 

Wow, 3 years went by fast

Monday, October 20, 2014

It sucks sometimes

I need to sit and complain at something.

I need to complain about how I don't own a device that allows me to travel across large distances in a second. And about how my life is on pause for 22 days out of the month. And about how everyone thinks it's just fabulous that I'm married, yet I live on my own. How great! they say. That way you don't fight and you can do whatever you want! That's how marriages last so long, just stay away from each other!

I need to complain about the other half of the population that is constantly asking "so how's Phil?" And then they nod appreciatively when I say "he's good". Like they just did something noteworthy. Like they made me feel better by reminding me that my husband is 1800 miles away. And then they follow up with "is he liking it over there?" And then follow that up with an "oh that's good" after I say "yeah, he likes to travel." But there's really no other answer I could give them. Most of my answers are reflex responses because I can't really find it in myself to over-analyze just what I think of this separation due to job nonsense. And Then, they follow everything up with a joke about how I get to spend all the money he's making. Like if he's instantly a millionaire. Like I'm some gold digger that's in it for the cash. Like I don't spend my days carefully itemizing expenditures and debts and savings. Like if having a little extra cash in my pocket makes up for going to bed alone every night.

I need to complain because damn, are people nosy. When are you having a baby? they ask. It's time already, don't you think? I love my family, but geesh if you want a baby so bad make one yourself. They expect me to have a perfect answer to their probing questions, like if I were on some sort of talk show. Yes I have plans for children. NO you can't know them. NO you can't know if I'm on birth control. NO you don't know when the "right time" is, and besides, nobody asked you! I don't need your opinion.

I need to complain because it just sucks sometimes. It sucks not seeing your next step. It sucks not knowing. Move or stay? Where to live? What to study? I've never hated school before, why do I hate it now? What should I want? What should I like? How should I live? Am I supposed to like living alone? Am I supposed to hate it? Where should I work? Where will I end up?

I need to complain because life doesn't get easier, and that's fine. That's expected. But it gets so confusing! Should I be careful about the future? Should I act like I'm invincible? Live like I was dying? Plan for tomorrow? Be the ant or be the grasshopper? Want a simple life? Dream of a grandiose one? If I aim low, I'm settling. If I aim high, then I'm worldly. Where's the middle?

I need to complain because I've gotten used to living alone. And I kind of like it. I like stretching out on the bed. I like staying up until 3AM doing homework. I like not bothering to cook when I'm not hungry. I like a clean, orderly house. I like having the TV off and reading in silence. I like talking to my dog and watching his confused expressions trying to figure out if we are going for a walk or not.
But I also kind of hate it. I dislike how I moved to a new city because of the people, but then the people left and I'm still here. I dislike how it takes me so long to say things properly in Spanish. I dislike how my husband has no interest in my culture. I dislike how I feel like I'm supposed to be doing more and yet I feel myself doing less with life.

Alright I think I'm done. A lot of the things I just said make little sense to me but at least I sort of cleared my mind a little. Tomorrow I may be too embarrassed by this post to leave it up, so we'll see. 

Thursday, October 16, 2014

It's Like Muffins

When I was in High School I took a class called Nutrition and Food Science where we learned about cooking healthily. The first time we ever made anything we baked banana nut muffins following a simple recipe, and to this day I remember an important phrase my teacher kept on repeating: "with muffins, it's all about the quality, not the quantity." She meant for us to avoid making multiple batches of tiny, lifeless muffins and instead focus on making around 6 very good, fluffy, large muffins.

I have never forgotten those words and I constantly apply them to multiple aspects of my life... focus on the quality of it, not how much of it you can have.

So... to the point... I decided to apply that to blogging too. Remember that 30-day blogging challenge? I just got rid of it. Most if not all of those posts were incredibly boring and pointless and they took no skill in writing. Instead of overcrowding my page with nonsense I am going to go back to the mostly thoughtful, long-winded posts. Writing makes more sense that way :)

Thursday, September 25, 2014

Soup Du Jour: Chicken Orzo Soup

I made a goal this week to find time in my homework-filled schedule to do something that "charges my batteries". I really wanted to cook something out of Pinterest, and after some deliberation I decided on a simple Chicken Orzo Soup. It was great! A deliciously thick, chunky, tasty, hearty meal to enjoy as I watched whatever was on TV that night. 


 Ingredients:

  • 2 cups shredded rotisserie chicken
  • 2 cups cooked orzo
  • 2 diced carrots
  • 3 diced green onions
  • 2.5 cups chicken broth
  • 1/2 cup whipping cream
  • 1 tablespoon chopped garlic
  • 1 tablespoon butter
Instructions: 
  1. melt butter in medium to large pan. add carrots, onions, and garlic. saute until carrots are soft. (notice the orzo cooking in the back. don't forget to stir!.)
  2. add chicken broth and bring to simmer. add whipping cream. simmer uncovered for 5 - 10 minutes. 
  3. add shredded chicken. salt & pepper to taste. cook, stirring occasionally, for another 5 minutes. 
  4. mix in bowl with cooked orzo. add parsley if desired. Enjoy!
This was a pretty tasty meal overall. It was quick (15-20 min prep time), simple to make, and inexpensive. Cant wait to go home for leftovers! 





Sunday, September 21, 2014

I just wanted to say...

I have always sucked at all flavors of math, ever since middle school when they decided to add the alphabet into the numbers. Ugh.

But I have to say... Trigonometry might be my niche. 

Things might have gone easier had I just GONE TO CLASS and paid attention like everyone else, but considering I figured this out by myself... it didn't go so bad.
3.5 hours, 1 blog post, 1 bowl of cereal, and 3 Pandora stations later... I finished my homework! Yay me! 

Charges My Batteries

A couple of months ago I met a person at Schlit [water park job] who is literally the opposite of me personality-wise. He is super outgoing, full of confidence when meeting new people, and an extreme (to everyone's slight annoyance) morning person. We got along pretty well, and in our free time as we walked the park he told me that he hated being in the office doing "officey things" (which is my favorite part of the job) because it drained him. He loved being outside and talking to literally every single person he saw, and told me that doing that "charged his batteries" and gave him energy and enthusiasm. I was awed, because talking to people is mentally the most exhausting thing I can think of... customer service jobs aren't really for me.

This got me thinking though... what "charges MY batteries"? What are the things that give me energy and enthusiasm? I made a list, of course, and here it is:

  • researching & planning for vacations (I can literally do this for HOURS and not notice)
  • going to the zoo or aquarium
  • creating anything artistic digitally (photo books, blogs, GIS maps, etc.) 
  • making lists (duh) .... and checking things off to-do lists
  • listening to super cool instrumental music (Lindsey Sterling... look her up, ya'll)
  • organizing files on my computer (gosh I'm so boring. but yeah, so true)
  • reading cute blogs by people so much more creative than myself
  • reading a good book. alone. in quiet. 
  • going to the movies with P
  • going to the beach
  • cleaning or reorganizing my house
  • trying out new recipes (but only when the food is for someone else) 
  • looking at "dream houses" online 
  • searching for cute baby names. or cool pet names. 
  • making next month's calendar of when bills are due
  • reading and replying to an email from Chris
  • driving while listening to a really good song
  • days when it's both sunny and raining
  • talking about a subject I know a lot about
  • making a .pdf of my next semester's schedule
  • spending time on goodreads.com adding books to my to-read list
  • taking personality tests
  • listening to people talk in southern accents (I love it, idk why)
  • the first cool, crisp day of autumn 
  • wearing a favorite outfit I feel confident in
Well... this list goes to show how much of an introvert I am. Hanging out with friends is fun and all... but man it's tiring, haha. My goal for this week is to do something that energizes me: 

try out a new recipe and blog about it

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Angry Birds Live

ANGRY BIRDS LIVE!

I volunteered for last nights YSA FHE lesson and activity, and decided to take an idea out of my Pinterest boards and make my very own Angry Birds Live game. It was a lot more successful than I thought it would be, thanks to the help and good attitudes of everyone who participated.
Here's what I used:
  • 6 small, 6 medium, and 6 large moving boxes (Lowe's)
    • I went overboard here, we really didn't need that many, but they survived the night in almost perfect condition and since apartment living isn't gonna be my thing forever... I know I'll use them within a year. 
  • several green balloons
  • 8 small plastic balls (Walmart... although if I had done Dollar Tree they would have been cheaper)
  • 6 boxes of cereal
    • These weren't really necessary, but I had so much cereal from couponing that I thought they would make a nice addition
  • wrapping paper 
  • 2 "soldier helmets" I found at Dollar Tree
  • exercise Stretch Bands
    • I was aiming for a big water balloon launcher, but no store I went to had them. I had almost given up on my Angry Birds idea when I passed by these at Walmart and inspiration hit. 
all ready to go!
I wrapped up the cereal to use as "bricks"

one of our set-ups

Some piggies had helmets

Pretty unflattering... not the best photographers lol
This was a pretty fun activity overall. I did go overboard with all the materials I purchased, so if you want to give it a try, I suggest using about half of what I did and you should be ok. 

Sunday, August 24, 2014

When P's Out On A Hitch



A compilation of  things to NOT say to an Oilfield Wife:

1. "Don't you miss him?" ... No shit, Sherlock. He's my husband and he's been gone for 3 weeks. Of course I miss him.

2. "So how is he doing?" I get to talk to him for about 3 minutes out of the day, if I'm lucky. All I know is where he's at and that he's alive. I wish I knew more, but I don't... so maybe quit asking.

3. "Isn't that dangerous?" Yes, it is. I worry for his safety every second of every day, but thanks for bringing it to the front of my mind, that's very thoughtful of you.

4. "Will he be home for Christmas/Valentines/your Anniversary?" The schedule is 3 weeks on, 1 week off. That's it. If it falls within that schedule, then he'll be home. If it doesn't, then he I'll be on my own.

5. "You're lucky you get to have the house all to yourself and have some alone time!" I don't know what kind of sad, crappy relationship you have with your guy, but I'll never be glad our home is half empty, and I'll never be glad to be away from my hubby. I miss him every second of every day. I married him because I love and want to be close to him, not because I want to use him as an ATM.

6. "Isn't oil like... bad?" First off, if you're telling me that, get the hell out of Texas. Secondly, no, oil isn't "bad". It's what keeps our family afloat and living comfortably. Actually, it's what keeps entire cities afloat. And it's a necessity for the lifestyle we have in the US of A, and basically everywhere else in the world. We can't get rid of it, so don't get all "go green" on me because I happen to hold a Bachelors degree in Environmental Science and I actually know wth I'm talking about.

7. "So what do you do when he's gone?" Distractions. Lots of distractions. I do whatever I have to do to keep my mind off the fact that I won't see him until next month. I pay the bills, binge watch crappy Netflix, clean maniacally, re-arrange furniture, go to school, study, work 2 jobs, exercise the dog, pick up new hobbies, spend hours at Barnes and Nobel, keep myself fed... But really, most of what I do is constantly glance at my phone to see how long I have until the possible 3-minute phone call of the day. And maybe find funny pics to send to my hubby to try and brighten his day.

8. "Oh, you'll get used to the schedule. And he'll be home before you know it." Try this: Go an entire 3 weeks without using your right hand. Just drag it around limply and pretend it's not there. You can still survive, right? And you can still live your life normally. And after 3 weeks you'll be able to use your hand for 1 whole week! You can make up for lost time then.
... same principle. It's a life we have chosen, but it's not always easy, so stop undermining our feelings.


So...disclaimer. Life isn't quite as miserable as I make it sound, I'm pretty dramatic in writing, lol. P and I have been separated due to work before and this time around isn't even half as bad as that was. I blame this sassy blog post full of sarcasm on the "writing bug" that hit me at midnight tonight because I took a 4 hour Sunday nap, haha. I love my hubby and I can't wait to have him home again, 17 more days! 

Monday, August 18, 2014

Empty Nesting

Is this what empty nesting feels like? Because if it is, then I'm about 25 years too early. Philip left this morning for a job in Newark, NJ and our little apartment has never felt bigger. He's been out in the GoM working at an oil rig off the coast of Louisiana for the past 2-ish weeks, and now he's gone again! He was only in Corpus Christi for about 16 hours, and 8 of those I was at work, 4 were spent sleeping, 2 were spent stuck in traffic, and 2 were spent packing. It kinda sucked, but at least I got to see him.
I dropped him off at the airport this morning; he will be working in Newark, NJ for the next 3.5 weeks! Ugh, being an adult isn't fun sometimes.
BUT, on the other hand... here are the things I get to do in his absence:

  1. drive his truck. seriously, I don't think he is ever getting this truck back. finders keepers. 
  2. cook foods i love, but he doesn't. like spaghetti and all kinds of soup!
  3. decorate like crazy and move furniture around
  4. plan for super fun holiday trips like Christmas in New York :)
  5. read more books! (I read 3 during the 2 weeks he was out at sea, it was great)
  6. spend more time at Barnes and Nobel and less time at Lowe's
  7. visit more people everywhere; the Valley, San Antonio, and I might even get wild and show up in Houston, Loni! 
  8. give the TV/Xbox a much-needed rest
  9. not feel guilty about takeout on the nights when i'm just not hungry enough to make dinner
  10. have a fantastic week every month of having my hubby home with no other obligations <3
Ok, coming up with 10 good things about being lonely was more difficult than I thought it would be, but I think this schedule is something I could really get used to. I have tons of things to do while he's away, and I will always have something to look forward to. 

On a related subject, look at these pictures of him working out in the middle of the ocean! 
the basket that lifted them onto the platform

hardly working

and working hard

an almost-sunset 

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Seven Lists of Seven Things

I'm bored and I feel like typing. Plus the typing keeps my fingers occupied and away from those pickles and Takis, so I've decided to pick a random number out of my "Prompts for the Future" list and write about that. This is an easy one:

Seven Lists of Seven Things:

      1. 7 Things I Like To Eat
        1. little mexican bistec tacos
        2. baby carrots out of the bag
        3. baby back ribs from Rudy's
        4. grapefruit in every way possible
        5. all kinds of soup
        6. lemon pepper wings
        7. cream cheese wontons
      2. 7 Things I Don't Like To Eat
        1. celery
        2. mint chocolate
        3. avocado
        4. pineapple on my pizza
        5. milk
        6. cherry tomatoes
        7. papaya
      3. 7 Things I Like To Talk About
        1. pets
        2. books or movies
        3. religion
        4. baby names
        5. bucket lists
        6. consumer electronics
        7. psychology
      4. 7 Things I Don't Like To Talk about
        1. how was work?
        2. politics
        3. LGBT issues
        4. sports
        5. what to do after college
        6. "best way" to raise kids
        7. clothes/fashion
      5. 7 Things I Hoard
        1. notebooks
        2. books
        3. Burt's Bees Lip Balm
        4. laundry detergent
        5. coupons
        6. scrapbook paper
        7. handwritten letters
      6. 7 Movies I Like Quoting
        1. Pitch Perfect
        2. Nacho Libre
        3. Harry Potter 1-8
        4. My Big Fat Greek Wedding 
        5. The Hangover
        6. The Princess Bride
        7. Napoleon Dynamite 
      7. 7 Songs That Played on Pandora While Writing This
        1. Really Don't Care, Demi Lovato
        2. Let It Go, Tim McGraw
        3. Bailando, Enrique Iglesias
        4. Waka Waka, Shakira
        5. Bartender, Lady Antebellum
        6. Rewind, Rascal Flats
        7. Wasted, Tiesto

GERD in 3..2..1 *blagh*

Today I came into my office and discovered a huge treat! Dale's famous home-made pickles! That's like a half-gallon of them, and they're for ME! Ever since I tried one of his pickles about a year ago, I have never purchased regular store-bought ones because they're just not the same thing. Once in a while Dale will share his pack lunch of pickles with me and I always savor the moment. I'm so crazy excited for this huge jar of pickles just for me! Plus... I kinda stopped by the gas station on my way into work and snagged a bag of Takis. Not the best combination for a healthy, heartburn-less esophagus, but oh well, I'll deal with the consequences later. 
As for now.... *munch, munch munch*

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

2014 07 22 Sleep Talking

What happens after 5 Tylenol PMs and Philip falls asleep on the couch:

Me: (whispering) Hey babe, wake up, come to bed
Phil: (yelling) I'm awake! I'm awake! I'll go right now.... (and then stops moving)
Me: You're not really awake, you're yelling at me
Phil: I'm trying to find out if I have to pay for water!!!
Me: Yeah, you're asleep
Phil: I'M AWAKE! (eyes are closed)
....

I finally got him off the couch and into a semi-comatose state on the bed. This morning he said he remembers talking to me about the kitchen sink last night.... (didn't happen).

Actually, I Can

Why hello there, sad and lonely blog! Sorry I've neglected you for so long, let me dust the cobwebs off you. 
that's a programming joke... in case you don't get it

A couple of hours ago I took my final exam for my C++ class. Wheew, what a load that's taken off my mind! I'm glad its over, and I'm also glad it happened. Summer classes can be a little daunting sometimes because there is so much material to cover in such a short span of time, and this one was no exception. Actually... it kind of sort of was a little different; this class was 8 weeks long instead of the usual 4, so we had more time to cover the material, but it still felt like a race against time. It was a HUGE learning curve... my Post-Bacc Certificate is in GIS, and that C++ has really nothing to do with it, but it was required anyway. The great majority of the class were computer science majors that already knew the language, but it was completely new to me.
Most of the time I always felt like the slowest student in there (I wasn't). We had 15 scheduled lectures, 12 labs, and 3 exams. I love writing notes, and I'm an extremely visual learner, which means I learn material best by writing it in my own handwriting and then seeing it in my mind's eye later. I managed to fill up a 3-subject notebook in 8 short weeks, all color-coded and with exam reviews included. That took a lot of my time.
I also managed to stumble my way through the labs and I surprised myself at the end of each one. It's something that I've given a lot of thought to over the last couple of weeks...

You see, the material covered in the lecture was all well-defined and theoretical... but it was the kind of stuff you don't understand until you actually apply it. At the start of each of those 10 labs, soon after reading the assignment, I thought about giving up. Everything seemed so impossible! There was absolutely NO WAY I could figure this program out and complete it in the next 24 hours!
Soon after every moment of panic, I would painstakingly open Notepad ++ and start with the only thing I knew how to do... the bare basics. Name, lab name, class number, date...
Then I would move on to writing out the Purpose of the program... what it was meant to do. That cleared things up A LOT. Sentence by sentence, it all started making sense. Now I knew what to do, just not quite how to do it, although the end result seemed clear.

So I took it one line at a time. I typed out what I knew was right... I asked the professor A LOT of questions about what I was unsure of, I read and re-read the directions, I tested and changed the program more times than I care to remember... and I still came up short. Each one of those labs had a tiny section of it that nobody could do without our teacher's help. The kind of help where she literally did it all for us and told us step-by-step which keys on the keyboard to press so it comes out right. I could not have done it without her.
Some programs were easy... some were hard. The easiest one I wrote was only 150 lines of code, took me about 45 minutes, and just all made sense. I later came to find out it was the shortest anyone wrote... some people's were over 2,000 lines long!
The hardest one was the time I sat in that chair for 6 hours. Everyone else (teacher included) had already finished and left, and I was left alone to fix my own mistake and I worked sooo hard to get my program to compile and run... only to get an 86 on it for all that work. (I never got anything below a 93 besides this one).
So lesson learned... I was surprisingly good at some things, and I was surprisingly mediocre at others. Still, it all balanced out to give me the grade I wanted and felt I deserved in the end :)

Monday, June 30, 2014

Hardly Working after Working Hard

So here's the thing: 5 years ago I got a summer job at this amazing, awesome, fun, crazy place called Schlitterbahn. Amazing, awesome, fun, crazy places tend to require a lot of energy out of you, and that's how my summer routine of exhaustion all began. I worked in the Admissions department for two years, and the third year I moved to Corpus, so that tradition didn't last too long. Well... it so happens that the mother of all Schlitterbahns is currently being built here in my beloved Corpus Christi!
I have no idea what made me do it... maybe it was nostalgia, maybe it was the lure of working at a water park, maybe it was the desire to be more active, maybe it was the promise of more money added to my bank account, or maybe it was a combination of all 4, but I applied. Not only was I hired 2 minutes after meeting with my manager, but I was promoted to my old position of Admissions Lead about 20 minutes into my first day there. That was 8 days ago. And since then, I've become a bit of a nut due to a combination of 5 factors:

1. I have a full time job that I am committed to (Great Sage)
2. I have a full time job that I am committed to (Schlitterbahn) 
3. I have a full time job that I am not so committed to, but am responsible for anyway (housewife)
4. I am a full time student and I've become very anal about grades dropping below a 95. 
5. I have just been called as 1st Counselor in the Young Women's Organization 

Looks like I've bitten off a bit more than I can chew, huh? I think so, too. Today I am extremely grateful about the fact that for some unknown reason my subconscious has refused to let me sleep in past 7AM every day for months now, so even when I'm exhausted and I try to go back to bed, I cannot fall asleep. This used to be annoying, but now it's great news! It means that I'll have no option but to get out of bed and go do the things I'm responsible for. 
Yesterday night as we sat in an office doing Admission-y things, my manager broke the silence and said "Dang girl, did you know you've worked 60 hours??" I said "yeah... I know..." and finished my act with a sincere yawn
If you think those 60 hours have been over the course of 2 weeks, you are WRONG, my friend. Those 60 hours have occurred during 8 days. Two of those days I was Off. Two of those days I only worked from 6PM to 10PM. You do the math. Want me to do it for you? I worked 40 hours in one weekend, and that's only because I asked for Sunday morning off so that I could go to church. 
Of course, that's only counting one job. I have not yet taken into account how I've also worked 30-some hours at my year-round job, or how I've sat for eternities in classrooms at school. 
Isn't that crazy? I worked about 93 hours in ONE WEEK!!! 
Student loans: Beware. My paychecks and I are ready to make battle! 

So what was the point of this whole blog post?? A few minutes ago I was thinking about how great it would be to lay my head down on my desk and close my eyes just for two seconds. Then, I was rudely awoken by a knock on my office door while I was dreaming about "how I really shouldn't leave my head down for longer than 2 seconds". I bet I was asleep for 10 minutes haha. 

This is how terrible I look like today. My hair is untamed and untamable. My eyes have forgotten what mascara feels like, and the hot, heavy, humid July weather has attacked my facial skin like only summer in Corpus Christi can. After years of a clean face, I have now sprouted 4 pimples and a lavishly decorative collection of freckles all over the place. 

You see them? They're all in a line under my nose. Wonder what's up with THAT. Haha. Whatever. 

Drawbacks to my current life: 
1. Sun damage to skin
2. Tired all the times
3. Hair is forever unruly

Benefits of my current life:
1. Never have trouble sleeping!
2. I wouldn't be surprised if I've lost 5 lbs in a week.
3. Extra money = death to credit card debt 

So my point is: I'm tired. But I'd also like to mention how great I feel. This morning I woke up thinking about how you never really know how much you can do until you're pushed past the limit. It feels awesome to feel tired after a long weekend and know that I did the best I could in every aspect. And so that's my story for today. =)

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Apples to Apples: First World Problems

So I've wanted to purchase a Mac for about... 8 years now? Big purchases scare me because I'm always afraid I'll make a mistake and regret it for a long time afterwards, but big purchases that involve consumer electronics scare me even more. I depend on these things too much! What if I can't get used to it? What if it's not what I imagined? What if what I REALLY wanted was that OTHER thing that I didn't get? As I'm typing this out, I am reminded of a personal favorite show (OK, who am I kidding, I'm addicted to TBBT) The Big Bang Theory's Season 7, Episode 19 (The Indecision Amalgamation) in which Sheldon cannot decide between two gaming systems.

The time has finally come to where I'm actually GOING TO BUY a Mac. But a few things frighten me:
1) Why is the Air suddenly $100 cheaper? Is it because there's a newer version coming out in the near future? If so, I don't want to get stuck with the old version...
2) I wanted an Air because its so small, but really... it's only a pound or so lighter than the Mac. I can handle an extra pound in my backpack. Oh but I forget: it's so light! and thin! and Air-y!
3) Alright, so what if I go with the Pro? Well, the Pro is slightly more bulky (but still lighter than anything I've ever owned), it's much more expensive (because I go for top-of-the-line stuff), but just feels so... powerful. And I'll be taking a TON of computer-y classes for the next 2 semesters (at least), so shouldn't this be my best choice?
4) But, I've also been wanting an iPad. If I were to buy an Air, I'd be able to afford that iPad along with it... Two new toys!
5) But wait, aren't I waiting for the rumored iPhad to come along? The next generation iPhone, the iPhone 6, the combination of iPhone and iPad... same thing. Whatever it is, and whenever it comes along, I'm getting it. My faithful little iPhone 5 has been going strong for a long time now, but (as the persistent golddigga AT&T keeps telling me) I'm much overdue for an upgrade. So if I'm getting a bigger iPhone... what do I want an iPad for?
6) And so if I really don't need an iPad, why would I choose the Macbook Air over the Pro?
7) Well... because the Air is cheaper, lighter, and looks prettier.
8) Hey! Who said we are going for looks here?
9) It's Apple... it's always been 80% about looks.

Ugh. I'm just going to adopt Sheldon's practice: 

Spoiled Rotten... Targeteering for Dog Treats!


Here's the main way I "save" money at Target: I always have TWO $5.00 Gift Cards ready to hand over in exchange for some new ones! This lowers my OOP cost and usually makes me feel like I got a better deal than I actually did... but whatever works.
During this Target shopping trip I realized that I spend a lot more on my dog than I do on myself... what up with that??
ANYWAY, back to my post: This week, Target has a mobile coupon for $10 off a $40 dog/cat purchase of food, litter, and treats. (Text PETS to 827438) They also have a deal of "buy one Pedigree dog food and one Pedigree dog treats, get a $5 gift card." Combining these two with some great Target and Manufacturer coupons gave me a great deal! See below:

  • Bought 2 Pedigree Dry Dog Food, 15.9lbs, $11.99 sale price
    • Used two $1 off Target Coupons (target.com)
    • Used two $1 off Manufacturer Coupons (pedigree.com)
  • Bought 2 Pedigree Marrobone Dog Treats 15 oz, $2.99 regular price
    • Used one $1 off 2 Pedigree dog treats (coupons.com)
  • Bought 3 Boots and Barkley Mini Franks Dog Treats, $1.89 regular price
    • Used 10% off Target Cartwheel
  • Bought 2 Boots and Barkley Dog Treats, $2.19 regular price
    • Used 10% off Target Cartwheel
  • USED $10 OFF $40 TARGET COUPON
  • USED TWO $5 TARGET GIFT CARDS (And received two more $5 cards)  
  • Paid with Target Red Card, which gave me 5% Off ending total
Total Before Coupons: $40.01 (Just one penny above my threshold!)  
Total After All Discounts: $14.51!!! (As an owner of a 1-year old Lab with a voracious appetite, this is our average cost for just ONE bag of dog food, so this is an AWESOME deal!) 

CLICK THIS BANNER TO PRINT SOME COUPONS! 

Monday, June 9, 2014

$2.17 MM at CVS for $60 of Product :)

So there's this new CVS that opened up last week and it's exactly on my way to work OR school, so I decided to go check it out. I happened to run into the king of cashiers there, he was the coolest dude I've ever had scan my purchases lol. I thought it was going to be difficult because it was a new store and this might be a guy who just learned how to be a cashier, but no. This guy knew all there was to know about coupons and was kind enough to explain how their system worked and even push through some rather unfriendly Almay coupons that beeped. Also, he had the deepest tenor voice and was about 6'8" or something enormous like that.
Anyway, here's what I bought using a complicated combination of CVS and manufacturer coupons:

  • Two Colgate Total Advantage Toothpaste, 7.6 oz
    • On Sale for 2 for $7.98, Buy 2 get $2 Extra Bucks
    • Used two $1/1 Colgate Toothpaste MC from SS 6/1
  • Two 3-Pack Listerine Breath Strips, $4.29 regular price
    • Buy one, get $2 Extra Bucks, limit 2
    • Used $3 off $15 Oral Care CVS Coupon
  • One Playtex Sport Tampons, 40ct. 
    • One Sale for $7.99, Buy one get $3 Extra Bucks, limit 1
    • Used $3/1 Playtex MC from SS 5/18
  • One Tena Pads, 14ct
    • On Sale for $3.50, Buy one get $2.50 Extra Bucks
    • Used $1/1 Tena Product MC (coupons.com)
  • One CVS Thin Pantyliner, $1.27 regular price
    • Used $3 off $12 Tampons or Pads CVS Coupon 
  • Two Almay One Coat Mascara, $8.29 regular price
    • BOGO 50% OFF
    • Used two $4/1 Almay Cosmetics Product from SS 6/1
  • Two Almay Shadow Softies Eye Shadow, $5.29 regular price
    • BOGO 50% OFF
    • Used two $4/1 Almay Cosmetics Products from SS 6/1
    • Used one $4 off $20 Beauty CVS Coupon
I also used one $10 off $40 CVS Coupon that was mailed to me last Thursday and I used $8.00 in Extra Bucks from last week. 

My total before Extra Care savings and coupons was $60.44
After coupons were applied, the $8.00 Extra Bucks had to be decreased to $7.68 because it exceeded my total (which was perfectly ok with me). 
My total Out of Pocket was $1.33, which was just tax and I received a total of $11.50 Extra Bucks

So to figure out the MM: $11.50 EB - $8.00 EB - $1.33 OOP = $2.17 Money Maker!!! 

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

New and Improved Coupon Binder


I've been planning to revise my old coupon binder into something more Me-friendly. I made the old one before I ever started seriously couponing and I soon found out that some things just didn't work for me. It was very well thought out, but since I was unfamiliar with the amount/extent of coupons out there, some sections (tabs) ended up not being used, while others tripled the initial amount of coupon-holder sheets in them. For reference, here are my old tabs/sections.
  1. Paper and Plastic
  2. Health and Hygiene (this section almost quadrupled)
  3. Cleaners and Aromatics
  4. Fresh Foods (there's like... no coupons for fresh food... ever) (ok maybe there is, but I never see any)
  5. Pantry Items
  6. Fridge and Freezer
  7. Office and Crafts
  8. Home and Misc.
  9. Eating Out
  10. Clothing (I don't think this was ever used, all the sheets in there look crisp and wrinkle-free)
  11. Just for Fun
  12. Shopping Lists
Now that I've made couponing my favorite hobby/lifestyle, I know what sections really need some extra space and which ones I can either condense or omit entirely. I also added a section to hold store-specific coupons. My 2 favorite stores allow "coupon stacks" (you can use one store coupon with a manufacturer coupon on the same item) and so I like to stick both into one pocket so they don't get separated. Having a section for each of these stores will make it much easier for me to find the coupons that I plan to use at that store and not use them at another one accidentally. Here's my Revised Coupon Binder Tabs
Cover Page with Contact Info (in case I loose it)
  1. Store-Specific (Target, CVS, Walgreens, Other)
  2. Paper and Plastic
  3. Health and Hygiene (Women)
  4. Health and Hygiene (Men)
  5. Beauty
  6. Razors 
  7. Cleaners & Aromatics
  8. Pantry Items
  9. Fridge & Freezer
  10. Pets (with a dog like mine, I need coupons)
  11. Baby (don't need this one quite yet... but I will sometime)
  12. Going Out
  13. Office/Crafts/Misc.
This is now organized from most to least used sections, and they should all more or less have an equal amount of coupons in them. The biggest help with definitely be making sections for certain stores. Feel free to take my idea and make it your own!
BTW, I took the time to Clip-Art the title pages into very nice, colorful ones... but then I decided to "go green" (or be colored-ink-stingy, whatever you want to call it) and print them in B&W instead. Does anybody else think the Target dog looks adorable? 



















 I used binder clips to hold the shopping lists I'd printed out a long time ago, but never used. It seemed like a big waste to throw them away, so I'll keep them just in case I get tired of using scratch paper to plan my coupon trips. The binder clips are also very helpful with holding inserts and full pages of printout coupons that I haven't gotten around to clipping yet.

Also, in case you really want to jump into couponing right away, click on the banner below to go to the coupons.com website and set your printer to work! 



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